Sometimes life hurts. Sometimes it hurts so much that your mind races and your stomach hurts constantly. Sometimes it is confusing beyond all reason.
God was gracious to me in blessing me with a job at my dream agency. I loved everything about that agency. It was an utter delight to work for them, in such a loving, respectful environment where God was honored. To have meetings with my supervisors and be prayed with. To have the freedom and support to share my faith with my clients.
It was hard, though. So hard. So out of my comfort zone. I was stretched and stretched and stretched some more. Many tears were shed. But I never, ever lost my determination. It only strengthened in resolve. I wanted to do this, and I knew that I ultimately could. I was determined to grow and grow, and I was growing by the day. And yet, a sticky situation arose and I misunderstood a certain piece of information and made the situation worse. For all I know, the particular parent involved in the situation could be suing ABCS right now. There were other things too, though. Other mistakes I made. I sincerely tried my best, did my best to operate with integrity and a clear conscience, but my best was not good enough. I got fired.
God has been giving me so much grace, though. The pain is raw and burning, but I feel like he has put his salve on it and tenderly wrapped it in a bandage. My parents and August have all encouraged me and let me know that they’re proud of me. Yocheved told me today that just a couple days ago, perhaps the very day I got fired, God put it on her heart to pray that He would heal my broken heart, even though she didn’t even know from what. God’s mercy has buoyed me and kept me afloat, helping me to maintain faith in His promises. My arms are weak, but He has been holding my shield of faith in place.
I have prayed and prayed and prayed. His Spirit even strengthened me to worship Him and give Him thanks. Incredibly, I even felt a gush of joy break through yesterday! I prayed heartily for my former employers and colleagues, and I prayed sincerely and hopefully for my former clients, mostly the ones whom all the mess happened with. God really carried me through.
Of course the enemy will not settle for this, and yesterday evening, after that amazing joy-burst, one of my parents and I had a terrible quarrel. All the supernatural strength I’d been feeling seemed to dissipate and I felt so helpless and vulnerable and desperate. Later I cried out to God that I just couldn’t do it, and I felt like He opened His arms to me and invited me to rest.
But the journey hasn’t stopped being hard. Today was flat and blah, no joy-bursts. Then I ran into exasperating technical challenges while trying to prepare a resume to submit for a different job. As of now, that resume is still dysfunctional, stuck in a PDF form that I cannot edit. I’m taking a break from the problem right now. Meanwhile, the enemy tried to whisper some vicious lies to me, to make me feel stupid and worthless and God was not going to use me. And I almost, almost opened up my heart to those lies. in fact, I started to, but somehow God reached over and closed the door I was opening. Instead, I started having these thoughts… what if they very people that I want to serve came to me, struggling with the same lies?
What if I was working with a homeless mom, struggling with a drug addiction. What if she told me that she didn’t know what to do, that it was too hard for her. That she felt trapped in this addiction and believed she always would be. What would I tell her?
What if I was working in an organized foster home, helping a child with homework, and they said that they couldn’t do it and they were too stupid. What would I say to them?
And what if I got another job doing the exact thing I was doing at ABCS, supervising visits for foster kids and their biological parents. What if some of those parents expressed that they felt overwhelmed and hopeless? What hope could I offer them?
Perhaps the very pain and difficulty that appears to be thwarting my mission to help people is actually better equipping me to help them? Maybe I have to wrestle through these lies myself and come out the victor, in order to be appointed by God to tear down the strongholds in other people’s lives?
I hereby choose to believe that this is an opportunity is disguise. I choose to believe that God does want to use me. I have begged Him with tears to use me. I have done this not tonight only, but on many other occasions, some of which are documented here in this blog. Maybe I should retitle this blog, “Desperate Pleas to Jesus.”
I choose to believe there is water here waiting for me. I might not be able to see it, but it lies just inside those rocks. I believe it.